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A Thought About Triggers...

Anyone suffering from anxiety, PTSD, or any life altering event can attest to the fact they have specific triggers. For me, during this first year post-affair, triggers have been fast and furious in the beginning, with nearly anything qualifying as a trigger. 587 fler ord

How Did We Get Here? Let's Start at the Very Beginning...

My husband and I met on a blind date.  I was a receptionist where he’d frequently call. One day, during the last week of December, 1992, he phoned, asking for one of the attorneys and I questioned, ”What is this in reference to?” 568 fler ord

I Need to Rant...

…and you really don’t need to read this if you don’t want to. But I have to get it out somewhere, and the blog is the safest place. 1 197 fler ord

One Year and A Week...


…after discovering my husband’s affair finds me sitting on the deck, on an Indian summer Sunday.  I spent most of the morning cooking and doing some laundry and now I’ve poured myself a cold cider drink and started reflecting on the other members of this infidelity club that I’ve met along the way.  1 102 fler ord

Once a Cheater, Always A Cheater...


But does this old adage stand true?  

Most people will forcefully pronounce if your partner cheated on you once, they’ll do it again.  While this statement may very well be true in most cases, I don’t believe it’s true 100% of the time.   1 137 fler ord

That Day and Beyond...

The subsequent three or so weeks after I outed his affair were horrendous. Divorce papers were served within a week, he was still in contact with the skank even though he said we had the opportunity to ‘rebuild from the rubble’. 870 fler ord

Sunday Night....

…..was September 18 last year.  I went to bed around 11:00pm.  I was volunteering at my son’s school on Monday morning. For the past couple of years I would wake up around 5:20 with no alarm.   646 fler ord