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Mercury is Retrograde, Beware...

Mercury went retrograde this Sunday on the same day of the Supermoon.  Mercury retrograde is usually blamed for communication snafu’s, technology and electronic failures, and other mishaps. 816 fler ord

Things I've Learned in the Year Following My Husband's Affair

I’ve spent countless moments reflecting, questioning and obsessing on how my husband and I went from a committed, loving couple to dealing with the betrayal of an extramarital affair.   881 fler ord

I Don't Always Buy Stereotypes: The Other Woman

I am of the belief that the stereotype once a cheater, always a cheater” is not always true.  I also don’t think that all women who cheat with married men are always the skanks, whores, sluts, home wreckers and all the other derogatory names we call them. 903 fler ord

A Thought About Triggers...

Anyone suffering from anxiety, PTSD, or any life altering event can attest to the fact they have specific triggers. For me, during this first year post-affair, triggers have been fast and furious in the beginning, with nearly anything qualifying as a trigger. 587 fler ord

How Did We Get Here? Let's Start at the Very Beginning...

My husband and I met on a blind date.  I was a receptionist where he’d frequently call. One day, during the last week of December, 1992, he phoned, asking for one of the attorneys and I questioned, ”What is this in reference to?” 568 fler ord

I Need to Rant...

…and you really don’t need to read this if you don’t want to. But I have to get it out somewhere, and the blog is the safest place. 1 197 fler ord

One Year and A Week...


…after discovering my husband’s affair finds me sitting on the deck, on an Indian summer Sunday.  I spent most of the morning cooking and doing some laundry and now I’ve poured myself a cold cider drink and started reflecting on the other members of this infidelity club that I’ve met along the way.  1 102 fler ord